Clever Ways To Find Swinger Parties

Jim Wade Author

group of people at a party cheersing

Looking into a new lifestyle full of lots of love, sex, and fun? Maybe it’s time to looking into Swinging and fuck local people. The first time you probably heard about Swingers was back on Myspace when it was a relationship option on your profile. At least that’s when I was first exposed to it.  

Many swingers feel that by engaging with others sexually it can strengthen their relationship with their partners. The swinger lifestyle may not be for everyone, especially those that get a little jealous. This lifestyle became popular after the Sexual Revolution of 1960 when contraceptive pills became readily available. 

In today’s day you don’t need any reason to want to push the boundaries of your relationship. Life is too short to not explore your sexuality with the blessing of your loved one. By maintaining an honest relationship with amazing communication you can have a relationship stronger than ever. 

Now you’re faced with a challenge. Where does one find swingers and swinger parties? Unfortunately, this can be the hardest part of swinging so without further adieu we’ve compiled our top tips for finding swinger parties.

 

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Eventbrite

EventBrite Swinger party

This might seem like another strange place to look for swinger parties but sometimes swinger events are tickets events. There is no site that makes setting up and paying for ticketed events more easy than EventBrite. This makes the site a go-to for swingers putting on events. Of course, these parties might be still under wraps so don’t be surprised if they don’t openly call them swinger parties. 

Every so often jump on the site and search for “adult parties” or “swinger parties” and something may come up. Look up the organizer of each event to get a better understanding of who is putting it on. Some might have a website or a Facebook group that can give you a better idea of their group and what they’re about.

 

Word of mouth

There are plenty of people that know people that swing. Many people don’t share about their lifestyle but chances are you know someone that knows someone that swings. Start conversations with people you know and trust about your curiosity with the lifestyle. They may surprise you and know exactly who to put you in touch with. 

Sharing with your friends that you are interested in swinging might get them interested as well. For all you know a couple you’re friends with a curious as well. If they’re not that’s okay they very well might know others that are. Once you get in with one couple that swings the whole network will open up for you. 

 

Burner groups

Know people in the Burningman community? If you don’t know what Burningman is it is a huge festival out in the Nevada Desert that congregates once a year. The Burner community is filled with artists, open-minded, sex-positive members. Generally, you will find Burners to be kind people happy to help point you in the right direction when it comes to your sexual curiosity. This does not mean every Burner is a swinger or that they even know a swinger but that might know where to begin your search. 

Many Burners are open to exploring different kinks and fetishes. If you ever attend the festival you can be sure to come across entire camps of swingers, swinging events, courses for swinging and lectures. Many of these camps remain in touch throughout the rest of the year in their day to day lives so chances are they’re having events in your town. Ask around your local Burners and you’ll probably find you won’t be judged as harshly as you may at your book club.

 

Ask your waxer

This might seem like a super bizarre idea but let’s unpack this. When people are preparing for swingers event they often want to be in tip-top shape. This means smooth as silk and where is a better place to get that done than at the waxers. I got this idea from my waxer actually. She told me, “You wouldn’t believe the people I know that are swingers. Doctors, lawyers, church people, and teachers.”

Now obviously your waxer won’t be comfortable giving out their known swingers contact book but potentially she would be open to passing you along. Simply give her a business card or two and have her pass it along to her clients. Begin emailing with fellow swingers and you’ll find yourself part of your local community in no time. 

 

Facebook Groups

You may be someone that uses Facebook to find killer deals on furniture or to keep up with whatever your grandmas doing. While these are perfectly good uses for the largest social media platform in the world did you know this might be the holy grail of local swinger information? 

If people swing in your area chances are they have set up a private Facebook group to help their community thrive. A simple search can tell you if you have a local group or not. Be cautious and double-check your privacy settings before diving into a group. Chances are you will have to be approved by an admin and pass a little questionnaire. From there you can expect to find locals and local events. 

The swinging community is small and close-knit. It just takes one in for you to be part of your local underground network. Try any or all of these ways to find swinger parties and you’ll be on your way to have sensual fun all the time. Remember when asking around to not seem like you are coming onto your friends but that you are simply curious about the community. Just because you are into it doesn’t mean everyone else is. By having open discussions with your friends you’ll find it takes away a lot of the stigma around it. Good luck and happy swinging.