Public Bathroom Sex: What You Need to Know [2021 Guide]

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There’s no use in overthinking it–sometimes the best ideas are the simplest ones. This rings especially true in regards to your sex life. Public sex is one of the easiest ways to have the most thrilling sex of your life. Of course, public sex comes with a few risks here and there, which is why people love taking it to the bathroom to get it on.

You might be thinking public bathroom sex is the farthest thing from sexy. Well, you might be surprised to learn that a public bathroom offers some unexpected advantages when it comes to public sex. Public bathroom sex is all about living in the moment, so get ready for a serious adrenalin rush. 

Whether you’re in a relationship or looking for a casual hookup, this naughty location can make for some incredibly sexy encounters. Keep reading to find out why public bathroom sex is so great, what the rules are, and exactly how to do it. 


Top Reasons Bathroom Sex is so Great


It’s spontaneous

The biggest draw to engaging in this kinky activity is the sheer spontaneity. It’s one thing to fantasize about this scenario, but to actually carry it out takes some guts. So, the next time you’re having amazing chemistry with that hottie at the bar, why wait to take it home? 

You get bragging rights

Okay, this one might be a little petty but why not? Hooking up in a public bathroom is one step away from joining the mile-high club so you’ve definitely earned some bragging rights. Now when someone asks you the wildest place you’ve ever had sex, you’ll have a pretty impressive answer.  

The adrenalin rush

If you weren’t already aware, sex and adrenaline a great combination. If you’re not into BDSM or other adrenaline-inducing fetishes, this is an easy place to start. There’s nothing more thrilling than sneaking into a public bathroom with someone, knowing there are people just outside. 

It can spice things up

If you’re in a serious relationship and you’re looking to spice up a boring routine, bathroom sex is an easy choice. You and your partner don’t have to put too much planning into it– just pick the right time and place to get freaky in public. This is a sure-fire way to rekindle that old flame. 

For casual hookups

If you’re not in a relationship don’t count this exciting activity out. In fact, public bathroom sex is one of the hottest ways to get hot and heavy with a no-strings-attached fuck buddy. If you’ve ever had a hot encounter at the club, you know that bathroom sex is certainly a possibility.  


Best Positions for Bathroom Sex:


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Most people are intimidated by the idea of public bathroom sex. If you’re worried about the logistics of the whole thing, we’ve got you covered. Here are the best positions for sex in a public bathroom:


Toilet Tip Toes

Flip the toilet seat down and so she can face the toilet with one foot up on the seat. Hold her waist to give her something to brace against and enter from behind. She can also put her hands on the wall for additional support.  

Love Handle

Many single stalls or handicap stalls have handles or bars along the wall. Lucky for you, these come in handy for public bathroom sex. Get creative here! You can utilize these handles for any position that requires extra support. 

The Sink Seat

If you’ve ever had sex in the kitchen you already know the merits of counter sex. Well, bathroom sex calls for a little improvisation in the form of a sink seat. Use the sink as a makeshift counter for her to sit on and get it on. Just make sure the sink can safely support her!

Live Show

What could make public bathroom sex more thrilling, you ask? How about a live show. Use the mirror to get another angle of the dirty deeds going down. Having sex in front of a mirror adds another erotic visual element to the experience. 


7 Steps to Public Bathroom Sex:


Step1: Pick the right place

If you’re looking for a casual encounter, the best place to go to is a bar or club. If you’re single and ready to mingle, you probably already know of a few choice options. If you’re already in a relationship, you can still hit up a club, but you can also choose a restaurant. However, It’s probably best not to choose a “family-establishment,” for obvious reasons.

Step 2: Choose the right time of day

Okay, this one is a little trickier. You may be tempted to choose a busy time of day or night when the establishment is packed, so you’re less likely to be noticed. This is a mistake. Bars, clubs, and restaurants usually get a very long line at the bathroom during peak hours. On the other hand, you don’t want it to be totally empty. Aim for the sweet spot– busy, but not packed. 

Step 3: Scope the scene

Before you make the move, check out your environment. Is there a hypervigilant security guard near the bathroom area? Maybe it’s best to reconsider. Is the environment fun and relaxed? That’s your cue to take the next step.

Step 4:  Assess the bathrooms

This one is important. What kind of bathrooms are you working with? Are they single-stall, multi-stall or mixed gender? These are all things to consider. Obviously, a mixed-gender bathroom is the easiest to get away with, but a single stall is also ideal. However, if you’re especially adventurous a multi-stall bathroom may be the most appealing.

Step 5: Leave separately

Now that you’ve found the perfect place for the deed it’s time to initiate the plan. You’re going to want to leave for the bathroom separately of course. There’s nothing more obvious than two people bee-lining it for the bathroom. 

Step 6: Check the lock

Once the two of you get to the bathroom you’ll probably be ready to jump each other’s bones immediately. However, it’s pretty important that you double-check that lock to avoid an awkward encounter. 

Step 7: Make your exit

This may actually be the hardest part. There’s no perfect way to exit the bathroom inconspicuously. One method is to have one person crack the door and check to see if there’s a line of people outside. If there’s not, you guys are in the clear to leave. If there is a witness to your debauchery, the best move is to leave the bathroom and then leave the establishment if you think the trouble is brewing.  


Quick Tips: 


Tip 1: Where the right outfit

Ladies, a skirt or dress is your best friend. Both people should wear something that doesn’t require a lot of effort to get the deed done. Skirts are perfect because you don’t even have to remove them completely. You’ll want to avoid putting your clothes on the floor for hygienic reasons. 

Tip 2: Use the biggest stall

 If you’re in a multi-stall bathroom, bigger is better. Tiny stalls just don’t offer enough space to really enjoy the experience. 

Tip 3:  Don’t try anything too crazy

The act of public bathroom sex is pretty kinky, to begin with. However, once you actually get to the act, it’s best to stick to what you know. Do what you know works and avoid unfortunate mishaps.

Tip 4: Have a drink but not too many

Public bathroom sex is, if anything, a covert mission. Have a drink or two for some liquid courage, but not so many that you can’t be inconspicuous. 

Tip 5: Keep it hush-hush

At the end of the day, the most important thing is not to get caught. That means you guys will have to keep the moans and groans to a minimum. In all honesty, this just adds to the sexiness of the situation. 

Tip 6: Don’t leave a mess

Be considerate. Don’t leave a mess for some poor soul to deal with later on. Clean up the aftermath when you’re all done.

Tip 7: Don’t get caught

It’s no surprise that there are risks associated with public sex. In most states, getting caught having public sex is considered a misdemeanor. The last thing you want is to get charged with indecent exposure, so do everything in your control to avoid getting caught. 


Bonus Ideas for public sex:

  • Your backyard: If you have a backyard, why not put it to use? It’s your property after all.
  • Against the window: Book a room in a high rise hotel. Enjoy the view while you enjoy each other. 
  • Remote toys: Give her a discreet vibrator that you control. 
  • Take a hike: There’s nothing like fresh air and nature to set the mood. 



Public sex is fun, there’s just no denying it. One of the best ways to try out this kinky fantasy is by utilizing a public bathroom. Make sure to follow the guidelines that we’ve laid out here, and you’re sure to have a great time. With these tips in mind, you’ll be ready to explore one of the most thrilling ways to have public sex. Good luck out there!


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