5 Signs She Wants To Fuck You

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Let’s get this straight. It’s difficult for a lady to come out straight and say they want to fuck you. Kudos to all the ladies keeping it real out there. But as a player, you don’t expect every hunt to be easy. Sometimes it’s going to take more than signs for you to find out a lady wants to fuck you.

Those signs are going to come, but most times, you are bound to misread them and end up stuck in the middle. Hey, that’s not going to happen to you anymore. We are here to steer you back in control.

Understanding someone’s love languages could keep things from getting lost in translation. So, to avoid awkward mix-ups, missed signs, and mistaken cues, we have put together the definitive guide to knowing if she really wants to fuck you or if you’ve got it all wrong. Let the countdown begin!


#1. She talks about sex… a lot

Women often think about sex as much as men do. They often don’t discuss their sex lives out loud and even then, often not around men. If you’ve been dating someone for a little bit and she is talking about sex often, and you still haven’t done the deed, she’s probably ready to give you a ride.

A girl wants to feel wanted, and if you know the dating has been going well, and she talks about sex a lot, in a positive way, she is probably ready. If a girl talks about sex in a way where she has had some bad experiences, you might want to pump the breaks and keep taking your time.

If the girl is a coworker or a friend and still talks about sex positions a lot, she may be interested but still proceed with caution. Talking about sex at work might be her way of passing the time, and sex talk in the workplace can be an HR nightmare. If she seems to be talking about sex a lot and doesn’t seem to mind your flirty banter, she may want to fuck you.

Listen, when a girl talks about sex, it means two things. Its either she is not free talking about sex with her lover, or she is giving you the sign. If she is in another relationship yet talks sex with you, brother, you may have been friend-zoned. But if she rarely brings up another guy when she talks sex, then you may have a clear shot.

Talking about sex is one of the visible signs you would find in a woman that wants to bed you. If you are lucky to see this sign, do not waste it.

Read on to make sure all the signs are there before you make an embarrassing mix-up.


#2. She touches you

Touch is one of the dominant love languages for a reason. Touch can send many signals to a potential suitor, but here are our main ways to tell if it’s intentional or not. If you have been dating for a little while and she can’t seem to keep her hands off of you, she may be ready to fuck.

If she finds an excuse to rub up against you or touch you whenever possible, chances are she may be ready to take things further. Hand holding while dating does not mean she is ready to take things further, but if her hands move further south, things might be heating up. Of course, many touches are accidental, so make sure you are not reading into things more than you should.

Touch can get a little trickier if you don’t know someone well, and your relationship is not romantic in nature. This does not mean she might not want things to get there. If you notice she goes out of her way to touch you, especially at work where that behavior is A-typical, she might want to fuck.

To be sure her intentions of touching you were not accidental in nature, try to see if she tries to touch you several times. Maybe she comes up and rubs your shoulders for a moment or grazes your arm when you’re next to each other. Make sure there have been several occasions before returning the treat. If you do touch her back, make sure to pay close attention to if that move is accepted or rejected.

This is a sensitive sign, as there are women who are touchy when they get friendly but do not see it as a big deal. Do not get too comfortable because a girl is touchy around you. You need to confirm if her signs are legit.


#3. She Invites you back her place

If a date is going seemingly well, a huge indication that she might want to take to the next phase is an invite to her place. If on a date and at the end of the night she invites you to her place, she is not ready for the night to end. Go along if that’s what you want as well.

If the date is coming to an end and she hasn’t asked you to go back to her place, feel free to ask her if she would like to go back to yours. This allows her to opt into things that may be going further. If she declines to go back to your place, that’s okay.

This does not automatically mean the date was bad, or she won’t at some point. Everyone moves at their own pace, and this should not be seen as an instant rejection. Be cool about it, and chances are she will find that extremely attractive. Just remember to avoid making mistakes if you end up back at her place for sex.


#4. She Sends you racy photos

As corny as it might sound, a picture is worth a thousand words.

Raunchy photos are pure signs that a girl wants to get naughty with you. If you get these photos, celebrate, brother, because you are about to get laid.

Sexting with images can be a hot way to spice up any kind of relationship, and especially one that hasn’t gone to the home base yet. Sexting a photo of the parts you haven’t got to see or touch yet can be a fun way to tease what’s to come and get them to have sex with you.

If you ask for a photo, we have a few tips. Make sure the conversation was already heating up in the text. No girl wants the random “Send nudes.” The other tip: if she declines, no worries. Don’t get upset. She might get to that point after things have gotten physical in real life. Making sure things are really hot in texting before asking for nudes will help her get in the mind frame.

If she sends you nudes without even asking, even better. This is a great sign that she is comfortable with you and trusts you. Sending nudes is a very private thing, so by sending them to you, she is counting on you to be a trustworthy person and not share them around.

Do not mess things up at this point. Every girl loves to be chased around and doesn’t get too comfortable because you have a clear shot on goal, you could hit the bar. Take things up like a pro.

Make her feel special and not less worthy, It makes things easy for you. Plan out a date and throw her off her feet on the bed, literally. Women are spontaneous in nature. One minute she may want to fuck you and the next, she thinks it’s a big mistake. Do not give her the chance to think twice. Take her signs up and hit the nail on the head.


#5 She tells you

The number one way to tell if a girl wants to fuck you is to ask! Sometimes people are coy about asking for what they want. Sometimes just facilitating the conversation is all it takes for someone to open up and say yes. There are many ways to ask someone you’re newly dating if they want to take things to the next level, but there are also many ways to ask someone you don’t know. If you think you are picking up on a lot of the signals above from her, the final move is to ask.

If you two are newly dating and you suspect she wants to fuck, you bring it up in a casual way. “Hey, things have been going well for us. The chemistry is definitely here, so I was wondering if you’d like to take things further.” If she’s ready, this conversation could help take it to the next level. If she isn’t, this small conversation could be significant. If you rush ahead and make a move and she didn’t want to fuck. Things may get awkward, and she might dump you right there.

If she’s a casual acquaintance or someone you think might want to fuck but not want much more asking could still be really great. If she’s been giving you causal but flirty vibes, she might be more open-minded to a casual hookup. By simply asking, “How do you feel about no strings attached or casual hookups?” She can tell you if she wants to fuck or she’s not into you.



The above signs are all you need to know when a lady wants to get laid. They might spin out easily, or sometimes a bit complicated. But one thing is sure you will get laid if you follow the right steps. Dealing with women is never straightforward. Expect a change in plans and even a total collapse of plans. You can brush up your games by looking up the dating tips here and getting better at your act. Good luck!

Happy Fucking. 


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